The sexual positions there are not enough for couples particularly fiery. In truth, however, it seems that when it comes to sex, there is always a tendency to experience little. A little because even the classic positions, typical of vanilla sex (which can become spicier with a few tricks ) are on balance the most comfortable.
Sure, sex experts suggest varying and always trying something new (that works for both partners, of course), but it is also true that, at times, the cues are a little too acrobatic and hardly achievable in the absence of training, not to mention dangerous.
The basic rule, when it comes to positions, is: forget everything you think you’ve learned from porn. Adult movies are fun, but they’re not the best guide on the subject, as you’ve been thinking for years: porn actors, in real life, don’t have sex just like you see them doing in porn.
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Wild sex positions
As often happens, between the two extremes – the missionary on the one hand, the position of Superman or that of Spider-Man on the other – lies the “right” measure. Consensual (always!) And easy for both partners: that’s why, if you want to experience some wilder sex and maybe even kinky sex, but without exaggerating (or hurting yourself), you can start from these sexual positions: wild (to taste) but doable.
The confused missionary
The sexual position of the missionary is the most classic of the classics. Considered particularly boring, variants are cyclically suggested. In its “confused” version, the partners position themselves as usual, with some differences regarding who is underneath. Whoever is below (and is penetrated), can try to keep the legs stretched in a V shape; or raise and cross your legs around your partner. Again, he can raise his legs and place them on the shoulders of the partner who is penetrating.
As always, another trick that makes the missionary position even more spicy is to use a pillow behind the pelvis of those below. All the experts assure that the pillow and the different position of the legs could turn the missionary into the most adventurous position as regards the angle and depth of penetration. What’s more, all of these variants are also functional for anal sex.
Four on the floor
The reverse cowgirl position (that is, with the back to the partner who penetrates) is already a variant of the more common ones. This is a further development.
The penetrating partner sits on a chair or sofa, while the other takes the reverse cowgirl position (i.e. rides the partner with your back to him), then should lean all the way forward until his hands are resting on the floor. You can play your sex playlist and try this position with your partner.
If the partner is particularly athletic, you might start in the classic cowgirl position, then she can slowly begin arching backwards, until her hands touch the floor behind them in a bridge-like position. According to experts, this position allows for extra deep penetration of the woman and stimulates her G-spot.
Tantric variant of the reverse cowgirl
If you want to try a wilder version of the reverse cowgirl stance, go… slow.
In this tantric sex variant, you should lie down on the bed, but leave your legs dangling. She should stand on top of you with your back to you, but instead of standing erect, she should lean all the way back against you.
Experts stating that this position is great for G-spot stimulation and allows for easy access to the clitoris and to palpate the breasts. The position also lends itself to greater contact and intimacy.
Dirty Dancing
In this case, the film with Patrick Swayze has nothing to do with it but… a little yes, in the sense that this position reminds us of some particularly sexy dance move. Both partners face each other.
The penetrating partner leans on a hard surface for support (such as the wall) and she straddles one or both legs around the partner. Of course, this position is better if the partners do not have too much height difference, but it is still a position to try, especially in small and narrow spaces such as public toilets and / or those of airplanes, trains, etc.
Hogtie
The name of this position derives from a practice performed on animals and consists in rendering them harmless by tying them to all four limbs. It is also a position that winks at bondage and BSDM. She (or the partner to be penetrated) lies on her stomach and you tie her ankles and arms behind her back so that all four limbs are tied together. Make sure the laces are not too tight or you risk interrupting blood circulation to the extremities.
Once tied, you can penetrate her: let’s say this way – or even the X variant, so with wrists and ankles each tied to a corner of the bed – are a good way to experiment with some more extreme practice. Obviously, everything must be consensual and easy to untie.
The curve from behind
A little doggy style, a little “famolo on the kitchen table” (or in the living room, or on the desk, or whatever you want): both partners are standing in front of a sturdy surface. She bends over, leaning over the table and you penetrate her from behind.
Experts suggest this position because it allows for deep penetration and because while you penetrate her she can stimulate her clitoris, having her hands free. In addition, it can also be good for anal sex.
Sexual positions, what your favorite says about you
Sexual Positions: Tell me which one you like and I’ll tell you who you are. Do you like the missionary position? Then you are a boring man or particularly interested in intimacy. Girl on top? A lazy lot who likes to have situations under control. Do you find yourself in sex expert reviews versus sex positions?
Position of the missionary
It is the simplest, most common, most popular, and most boring sex position. That’s why the experts here almost agree: Friends of the missionary position are bored. For some, the position in which partners can look particularly deep into each other’s eyes also means a special desire for intimacy. Romantic or bored: you can decide for yourself which group you prefer to find yourself in.
Cowgirl
From a woman’s point of view, it’s clear what she likes about this position – she’s in control. Men who prefer this position fall into the category of “connoisseurs” (some may call them “lazy”). Because with little effort they have fun, have wonderful eyesight and the woman sets the pace and are primarily responsible for her own orgasm. Great pleasure with little responsibility: there are men who like it.
Position of the spoon
The position for the tender man. They are practically pampering with something more. Friends of this position are romantics who care about tenderness. And there are those who would like to stay like this all night after the act.
Doggy Style
The exact opposite of the spoon lover. Intimacy disturbs sex, he sees it primarily as a means to an end – in this case, the reduction of sexual energy. He is obviously also a man who likes to exercise control, who sets the pace on his own and who has everything under control. A man of action who has no time for unnecessary emotions.
Standing
Those who prefer standing sex are adventurers attracted to dangerous situations, out of the ordinary. Also, the idea of getting caught (if there’s that risk) gives him a thrill. He is a man who loves bungee jumping and skydiving, who needs adrenaline, like coffee in the morning.
Legs on the shoulders
Men who keep their partners’ legs on their shoulders during sex secretly dream of turning into the porn industry. They would at least like to have the kind of sex they otherwise only see on their cell phone screens.
Sex in the shower
Anyone who seriously argues that shower sex is their favorite position or is still a virgin or having sex unimagined has been out for a while. Because anyone who has ever really tried it knows that, firstly, it’s pretty dangerous and secondly, it’s not really satisfying, not at all like what Hollywood has been making us believe for years.
Positions for making love for the first time
If there is one thing that is scary, it is the first time! And it is normal that this is so because it is an unforgettable experience, a very important step in the life of every man and every woman. Since there is no experience yet, the best position to make love for the first time is the classic missionary, because it is more natural than others and also tends to be more comfortable.
In this position he lies on top of her, lying down, legs together, with his penis in line with the vagina, and penetrates her gently, so as not to cause too much pain, at least at the beginning. Eye contact is important and this position fortunately favors it.
Is this the only one suitable for the first time? The answer is no, there are other positions to make love the first few times, like the one from behind where he positions himself behind her kneeling on the bed. The same goes for the rider, who envisions her above him in the position of command.
Preferred sex positions for women
There is no need for a particular location for a perfect love encounter in which to give emotions and get the maximum pleasure even if having sex standing up or in different situations is already exciting in itself. If you then experiment with sexual positions, by being in different phase in your relationship, that can improve the understanding and the meeting, making it unforgettable even better. Many women like to see their partner’s face while making love, so sex positions for her often allow for eye contact.
Doggie
The most pleasant positions for her remain the classic “doggie”, with him penetrating the woman from behind while both are resting on his knees. There is also the variant with him standing, she gets on all fours and allows herself to be penetrated from behind by the man, who rests on his knees.
Indra
Another of the most satisfying positions for her is the Indra, which allows deep stimulation of the G-spot. It is practiced with the woman lying on her back with her legs bent and feet touching his chest.
The table
A comfortable position for making love that women like is at the table. It allows you to have sex for a long time as it requires little physical effort. It is practiced with her lying on a table, with her legs twisting around the hips of the man, who remains standing and penetrates her while he can caress her breasts.
Positions for making love that men like
What are men’s favorite positions? Different but there are some more popular than others. Often being in control of the situation (or thinking you have it) generates more excitement and the best positions for him suffer, here are the favorites.
The Dragon
She is lying on her stomach on a pillow at the height of her pubis and lifts her buttocks to facilitate penetration while he lies on her back holding her hands.
The reverse cowgirl
He is lying on his back and she is on top of him with her back to him. He can admire the partner’s B-side by taking her by the hips and she can decide the rhythm of the penetration.
The lotus flower
Another of the most popular positions to stimulate him, even if not exactly easy to put into practice. The man is sitting cross-legged with the woman sitting on him and penetrates her by moving her hips in a circular manner. Her legs wrap around his chest.
Strange positions for making love
The strangest positions for making love are often also the funniest ones because, badly, you have a good laugh! And in this sense the Kamasutra is a precious source of inspiration for those who have the courage to dare. Here are two lovemaking positions not to be missed if you love extravagance in bed!
Drawbridge
Let’s start from the position of the Drawbridge which requires, especially for him, a bit of agility. The man must form a bridge by raising his pelvis and supporting himself with his hands and legs. Meanwhile, the woman sits on top making circular movements while letting himself be penetrated.
The step or ladder
The position of the step or ladder requires the woman to kneel on the step of a ladder, placing her hands on it. He positions himself behind her kneeling on a lower step, penetrating her from behind. You can try this with your committed partner or even if you are in a polyamory relationship.