There are many people who still don’t feel comfortable with the word vicious (and this is completely understandable). We often tend to think about it too much or are too afraid of something unknown to us and don’t even try. So, to accept something as part of your new sexual routine, it’s important to know its benefits as well.
As mentioned, kinky sexual ideas incorporated into your routine will keep your love life sparkling. It will boost your performance in bed and help you achieve maximum pleasure. But what you probably didn’t know is that kinky sex also has other health benefits that have a bigger impact on your well-being than regular sex.
See, sex toys, bandages, role play, handcuffs, and other kinky things engage you and your partner’s imagination and fantasy when you are in the middle of the action. This type of sex basically forces you to be there one hundred percent and to use your brain in the most imaginative ways.
Plus, the anticipation of not knowing what will happen next and enjoying it eventually is the key ingredient that boosts your health, strengthens your bonds, and makes you feel ten times happier than normal sex.
How to prepare for kinky sex
Preparing is essentially based on exchanging new ideas and getting more into it. So, one of the best ways is to watch porn, read erotica, explore the Kama Sutra, and choose from the wacky list of ideas below (or whatever you can think of). While watching porn, you and your partner can simply express your interest in a certain move.
As you read the eroticism or list of ideas below, you can both just agree with what you like and dislike, often a lot easier than sharing your fantasies (which can be downright awkward at times). Once you have found some new ideas and wacky moves that you would like to try, the next step is to divide it into ‘his nights’ and ‘his nights’.
In this way, both of you will have the possibility to choose what you want to do during your romantic evenings. It’s a perfect way to compromise and make it the best possible experience for both you and your partner.
Also, if you have kids, it’s a good idea to leave them to your parents so that you can fully dedicate time to yourself and enjoy trying new kinky sexual ideas without any distractions. (After all, you know the hell you deserve it!) Enjoy the ultimate list of kinky sex ideas that will help you achieve maximum pleasure!
Top 30 kinky sexual ideas
The following list of kinky sex ideas will provide you with the best tips for powerful ignitions and foreplay. It will boost your imagination and suggest a variety of different sex positions, oral sex charm, spanking, sex shop and much more.
The most important thing to remember is to find something that you are most comfortable with because that will give you the best results when it comes to achieving maximum pleasure and spicing up your sex life. Plus, there will be other tips on how to talk kinky sex, so make sure you don’t skip it at the end. Well, let’s get started!
Discover the power of role playing
The most famous and certainly one of the most effective. Role play is all about taking the role of a stripper, nurse, doctor or something else and acting sexy as you play it. However, many people are ashamed or not quite sure what they should be talking about while role-playing. So, there is only one rule you should follow in this regard and that is letting the scenario come naturally to you. The best RPG will be when you are in your most relaxed state where the words are coming to you, so keep that in mind.
Have sex with a full length mirror next to your bed
This is pretty much self-explanatory. Place the mirror next to your bed and watch yourself indulge in steamy foreplay and ‘rising action’ until climax is reached. There is nothing more kinky and sexier than watching your bodies intertwine and enjoying your every move. This will be a huge twist from start to finish (and will likely end with another steamy session).
Watch porn while having sex
If you haven’t already tried it, now is the time to do it! Watching porn will spice up your foreplay and provide you with one of the best experiences so far. The background sounds will turn you on even more and you will feel just amazing.
Plus, believe it or not, watching porn together will also strengthen your bond. Once you try it, it will definitely become one of those wacky ideas that you will want to repeat again and again with your partner. And every time you do it, it will be different and more exciting!
Try different sex toys and tools
A vibrator, lube, handcuffs, chains, clamps (ice cubes?), You name it. There are thousands of sex toys on the market and the only thing you need to do to reach them is to visit the nearest sex shop. Once you’ve picked a few that you found interesting, the only thing you need to do is enjoy them and tap into their full potential (if you know what I mean).
Having sex in a public place
Is there anything more eccentric than doing it in a public place? I think not. So, to have sex in a public place, you just have to choose a destination where you will feel comfortable enough to feel steamy with your partner. You can choose the car, an empty park, a hotel window, an empty college classroom or library, a private roof terrace (or a movie theater?) And so on. The fact that someone can interrupt you during the action makes it even more kinky and just HOT.
Dress up in some of the most kinky fetishes
The stranger the dress, the stranger the sex! If you are a woman, buy yourself a nice pair of hot lingerie, a leather skirt dress or you can turn yourself into a night nurse, a French maid, a sexy sailor and so on. You can also wear a sexy red Santa Claus costume during the holidays. If you are a boy, you can turn yourself into a male cop, pilot or doctor. There are endless ideas for extravagant costumes. The only thing you need to do is ask your partner about their kinky fetishes and you will find out!
Talk dirty
Talking dirty with your partner is one of the biggest ignitions ever (especially if you do it in public). You can just whisper in your partner’s ear what you will do to them once you get to your ‘crime scene’ and then you can keep talking dirty with them during the action until the end. Dirty talk is one of the most powerful weapons when it comes to spicing up your love life and making your partner feel warm and wanted. And if you are a woman who reads this, thank goodness! Here is the list of 95 super hot phrases guaranteed to drive him crazy!
Give bdsm a try
Just think of Fifty Shades of Gray and those hot scenes where one partner is dominant and the other is submissive. While you may think being submissive isn’t really something that suits you, you’ll never know until you try. So, try BDSM! The time has come to wake up your inner dominatrix and show your partner who’s boss in the bedroom. Plus, when you have the most desire to be submissive, you can easily turn into an obedient puppy and fulfill their every wish just as they did the same for you. And don’t fear it will be too much for you. You can always use a safe word (which you both agreed in advance) and end the game. However, it is a game of endless excitement and fun and you won’t regret trying it!
Ask for all oral sex and nothing else
Request a day of oral sex where your partner will be forbidden from doing anything other than indulging in a blowjob (if it’s a male) or steaming sessions to stimulate her clitoris (if it’s a female). You can do this to start and then move on to other parts of the body as well. The only rule that needs to be followed is to keep it oral and sweaty!
Masturbating in front of each other
This might sound a little creepy to some people because not everyone is that comfortable masturbating in front of someone else. But, believe me, once you start doing this, it will be so natural to you that you wonder why you haven’t done it before. Watching each other masturbate is as kinky as it sounds, and you can spice it up with the addition of some sex toys (like a vibrator) too!
Have a threesome
Have you always dreamed of having a threesome, but somehow you still haven’t found the courage or the right person for it? Well, now is the time to change it. To have the best threesome experience, you need to find someone you like and admire. This will make it much easier to indulge in a steam session together and neither of you will get hurt. After that, this experience is sure to change your whole life and your perspective on the threesome you may have once had.
Take the food to bed
Whipped cream, strawberries, wine, nutella, cherries, popsicles, grapes, ice cubes, cucumbers, you name it. Go frizzy and bring your favorite food to help you improve foreplay and kinky seduction. All you have to do is enjoy the taste of it as you lick and eat it from their most intimate parts of the body. Maximum pleasure guaranteed!
Get naughty on the beach between them
The soothing sound of the waves, the Moon, your bodies intertwined in an isolated part of the beach. And if you add being bad and if you let passion dictate your moves, you’ll be kinky in seconds! Being naughty at the beach will stick with you for a long time after doing it and you’ll always have that wacky smile as you rewind those hot scenes in your head.
Try anal sex
Put on your favorite sexy dress, take off your panties by accident, and indulge in a hot session of anal sex. If this is your first time doing this, be aware of using lube and you will definitely feel more comfortable (if you know what I mean). But if you don’t really like it even then, there are tons of other wacky ideas you can try instead of this one, so you definitely shouldn’t force yourself. Go with the flow and choose those kinky sexual ideas that you are comfortable with because, after all, that’s all that matters!
Drank sex after a wild night of partying
Visit your favorite place and get drunk with your partner. Tease each other all night and continue with it once you get home after a wild night of dancing, drinking and partying. Have wild and drunk sex without borders. To make things more interesting, you can also include BDSM if you feel like it or choose something else from the list. Go with the flow and do whatever feels good right now.
Watch your partner have sex with someone else
For many people, this is particularly difficult and uncomfortable, but believe it or not, watching your partner have sex with someone else will help create a stronger connection between you and your partner. And if you find it too hot to take it, you can always join them and enjoy a threesome. The possibilities are endless and the fun is guaranteed. Find your inner vicious beast and you will simply be unstoppable! Don’t let your perspective spoil your desire to try something new. And if you still feel uncomfortable during the action, you can always ask your partner to stop.
Get off on your partner in a crowded place
Get a little kinky and please your partner in a crowded place where no one will see what you are doing. This will also be a lot of fun because it’s a bit risky. Think about your partner’s face when you start doing this and you’ll get the point. Your partner will have to make an effort to keep his face casual which will be virtually impossible. Who cares? You have every right to have fun with each other and get a little weird from time to time. The excitement and enjoyment of it will simply be priceless, and you will remember your memories with a smile for a long time.
Stay naked at home all day and have sex as often as possible
Or if you want to get even more kinky, you can just choose to stay naked at home all day and have sex as often as possible. You won’t be able to look away from each other and things will heat up sooner than expected. This is also perfect for kinky sex coupon book ideas. You can write several quirky things on small coupons and gift them to your partner. For instance. No day of panties, maids, jokers (where you do what they want), etc.
Record your lovemaking or invite a photographer into your room to do it for you
If you want to become a vicious god or goddess, you can record your love or you can invite a photographer to your room who will do it for you. Just think about the possible scenarios if you choose the second option. And every time you watch the recording, you will be guided by the same passion and lust that you had the first time. It will be your personal collection of steamy and kinky scenes! (And if you already own one, you know you’re already a frizzy god or goddess.)
Have sex with the curtains open and go to the window
If you don’t feel that comfortable having sex in public, you can always go semi-public. By this I mean having sex with the curtains open and slowly approaching the window in different sexual positions. However, if you think you have crazy neighbors who might call the police for this reason, you may want to think twice (unless you don’t give a damn). After all, if they don’t feel comfortable, they don’t have to watch, right?
Take a shower together and help each other
Get together in the shower as they help each other out. For the final effect, imagine you are under a waterfall in the wilderness and wake up the wild beast in you. Taking a shower with your partner and warming up in the shower will be a relaxing and mind-blowing experience from first to last.
Have your partner dress up in your clothes
This is a little weird, but why not give it a try? So, all you have to do is replace your clothes with your partner’s and have your partner dress up with yours. This will work on the principle of reverse roles where you will pretend to be your partner and vice versa. It will be a little weird at first, but as you go, things will start to get more and more outlandish within seconds.
Go straight to the edge of orgasm but don’t let yourself come all night
If you are a woman, I’m sure you won’t have a problem with this, but if you are a guy you will have to come prepared for it (if you know what I mean). Getting to the edge of orgasm but not letting it happen will result in an accumulation of mutual lust and passion. And once you peak, it will be the most intense experience you have ever had, and this new experience will enrich your sexual relationship.
Having sex in someone else’s bed
Wake up your inner vicious beast and decide to do it in someone else’s bed. It could be your friend’s bed, maybe your parents’ bed (if you have no other choice) or someone else’s bed. And if you get more frizzy and sweaty, you can always change the sheets and, of course, clean it up (if you don’t want them to know).
Read dirty stories with each other
This is especially effective if you are struggling to fall asleep. So instead of reading some classic stories, you can choose to read each other dirty stories. I’m sure you’ll get in on the action before the story ends and then you’ll sleep like a baby. Also, don’t forget to talk dirty with your partner while doing this!
Having sex in nature
Connect with nature by making love in the forest or somewhere else among beautiful trees, grass and flowers. Wild sex in nature will purify your soul and fulfill your deepest and wildest fantasies!
Swinging
Or, if you feel like getting into the kinkiest mode, you can make love to another couple and swap partners within a group. Many couples swing as a way to be together but not really be together. However, if you are comfortable with it, there is no need to think twice about how to do it!
Blindfold each other
Blindfolded come together to enter a world of the greatest sensations that can only be experienced so intensely when you can’t see what’s going on, but you can definitely feel it in every pore. Blindfolded sex is a must if you want to experience surreal attraction on a whole different level. (And for maximum pleasure, make sure the blindfold is made of silk and that you are wearing some warm underwear (if you’re a woman, of course)).
Spanking
Get kinky by acting like a bad girl or boy and letting your partner spank you before and during the action. As the action progresses, the intensity of the spanking should also progress. If you haven’t done so so far, don’t worry. Once you do this a few times, it will become a routine in your bedroom. You will never miss the opportunity to spank your partner or get spanked (especially if you’ve been misbehaving lately).
Asking a stranger
And the last, but not the least! For that, you’ll need to turn on a webcam and visit a website where you can chat with random strangers. Then simply ask them to tell you what to do in bed. And if you want to remain anonymous, you can put something in your head so that no one recognizes you. I can assure you that the level of kinking will soon lead you to an overload!
How to talk about kinky sex with your partner
Once you’ve rounded up some kinky sexual ideas and tips to try in your bedroom, now is the time to inform your partner about it. Many people skip this step, but if you want a one hundred percent positive result, you should pay close attention to choosing the right words when it comes to talking about kinky sex with your partner and letting them know you want to try something new. The number one mistake you might make is informing them about it just before the action. Because?
Because you don’t want to get out of handcuffs or start watching porn out of the blue. Being vicious is not something trivial that everyone should feel comfortable about, regardless of the circumstances. We all want to know when things are about to change so we can act accordingly. So, the best time to inform your partner about your kinky sexual ideas is when you are having a glass of wine at dinner, when you are having fun on the sofa or when you are in another relaxed state.
The best way to start a conversation is to first ask your partner what they’re into and then tell your wishes after theirs. This way you will let your partner know that you care about their fantasies and want to be a part of them. It’s important to let them know that it’s not just about you and satisfying your most vicious needs. You need to be clear that you want both of you to enjoy things equally and that you are open to compromise.