Certain dynamics tend to naturally form in long-term relationships. It’s human nature to create comfort zones, with some couples getting into a more serious, structured and organized way of living, and some more relaxed and enthusiastic. And that’s perfectly ok. However, it does not mean that when you are already deep into the relationship you can completely forget about having fun with your partner – the key to a strong and fulfilling bond is maintaining a balance between fun and commitment.
You might be wondering, are you playful enough in your relationship?
If you are worried that your connection has become too serious and lacks excitement and laughter, here are some tips for fostering more playfulness in your relationship.
- DO SOMETHING NEW
If you do the same things all the time, it can easily become too predictable and routine. Introducing novelty can bring new life to the relationship. So, suggest something new, like a trip to a destination you have never been before, taking a cooking class together, or simply trying a different restaurant – discover something new and fun with your partner.
- CHALLENGE EACH OTHER
The power of competition in a relationship is underrated. Think of something both of you like to do and compete against each other – board games, card games, videogames – there are endless possibilities, and the best part is that, instead of rivalry and resentment, this kind of interaction will build amusement and connection.
- PLAY WITH PETS
Interacting with a pet is a great way to reduce stress levels, stimulate creativity and facilitate the formation of social connections, which benefits your relationship too. Playing with your pet together with your partner will transform the “chore” into something more enjoyable and fun.
- ENGAGE IN ONLINE GAMES
With the amount of technology available today, it allows for plenty of couple activity that were not possible before – for example, playing online games in team mode. Whether it’s an RPG, a shooter game or something more relaxed, online gaming can bring some much needed lightheartedness to your home.
- MAKE A LIST OF ACTIVITIES
If you are the kind of people who enjoy having plans and lists, another handy way to bring back the playful and fun into your relationship is to make a list of activities, annotating all the things you would like to do together, whether it involves something daring like going on a hot air balloon or something more simple like go see a classic movie. You can even set days and times to do them, so that you will always be doing something exciting and entertaining.
- SEND FLIRTY MESSAGES
Sending flirty messages and talking about sexual fantasies can be an essential way to revive that passionate spark between you two. Not only is it healthy to verbalize those fantasies, but it’s also a great way to add a playful level to your conversations and enhance that sultry bond that you share.
- HAVE A DANCE BATTLE
Dancing can be a very powerful connection builder between you two, whether you are a good dancer or not. Making up new dance moves and competing in a dance battle makes dancing into something delightful and entertaining. Who knows, maybe one of you is a natural talent!
- WORKOUT TOGETHER
Working out together is a great way to add a healthy dose of fun to your relationship. Not only can bring you closer together as you both strive to meet your goals, but also it’s an excellent way to have time just for the two of you, bonding and sharing a moment of delightful playfulness.
The relationship between two partners is usually a delicate balance – there is a well-defined dynamic that is maintained. It’s very important to strive for a good equilibrium between care and commitment, on the one hand, and open-mindedness and joy, on the other.
Keeping a relationship playful is essential for a strong and unified bond to form, and the key is to never forget to make time for fun activities, even if you have been together for a long time or have busy lives. So, the next time you are feeling drained and listless, think of a way to make your relationship playful again. You may be surprised at how much effect small gestures can have.